Monday, December 31, 2012
I hope everyone had a wonderful 2012, survived the various ends of the worlds, learned something new, and had a good time experimenting.
I thought I would share with everyone my Kinky New Years Resolutions. This was inspired by the New Years Resolutions from Em & and Lo.
1. Have more sex.
This sounds silly but in point of fact sex is super healthy! It helps to bond with my romantic partners, burns calories, creates good-mood chemicals in the brain, and it's fun! What's not to like?
If you're looking for ways to improve your sex life try Essence's 10 Sexy New Years Resolutions. There are some great tips in there.
I recently read Pagan Polyamory by Raven Kaldera (review coming soon) and I have learned a lot about communication for me and my partners I can't wait to put into play in 2013.
Communication is important for any relationship, no matter if it is is monogamous, D/s, or poly or a combination of any. This may not seem kinky or sexy, but make up sex really isn't as fun as truly enjoying your partners and not trying to kiss away the boo boos of your words.
3. Enjoy more toys.
More toy enjoyment means more reviews which means more blogging fun for 2013. I have a box of sex toys waiting on me and a few toys I've used that I've delayed in writing reviews on for to long. Be ready or 2013 to be riddled with dildos and vibrators, strap ons and floggers, lube and gags and blindfolds. I'm ready, are you?
4. Hand over the pen...er...keyboard.
That's right. I won't be the only one pouring over this blog. It is no longer my baby, though I will still be lead writer. My family has taken over and instead of being Mimi's BDSM Bloggery, this is now the home of House Phryxus. You will be hearing more from Sir Phryxus and other members of our house including PunkyPup, our latest and greatest addition.
5. Go to more events.
More munches, dungeons, parties, beatings, and more.
I want to immerse myself in the dark world of BDSM and really get the enjoyment out of watching and being among others of similar mindset. I love these events and I have got to start making time and budgeting for them.
6. Write an Ebook
I keep saying I'm going to and keep making notes and lists and more for them but keep leaving it all by the wayside and never getting it done. This year, I'm going to write an e-book for this blog. Keep an eye out for it.
7. Get my hands dirty
And before you go there...I mean by being more proactive in the BDSM and Poly community. Volunteer and help with events, see what I can to to get Erotication out there, and educate myself on more aspects of it.
8. More Interviews
I have a list...have had a list for all of 2012 of people to interview and articles to write. I just never got around to it. It's on my blogging priority list and I can't wait to introduce you to some of these fantastic people.
9. Read more
I have a looooong list of books I want to read in 2013. I plan on reviewing all of the ones I do read. There's just so much out there. Some of the books include Dark Moon Rising by Raven Kaldera, the rest of the Wolf Tales series by Kate Douglas, and who knows, maybe I'll trying and figure out the 50 Shades of Gray hype.
10. Experiment with other kinks and fetishes.
I love human buffets and flogging but what about dollification, burlesque dancing, and in-depth tantra? So much to try and only 365 days to do it in.
I hope your new years resolutions are fun and make them something you can stick to in 2013. Don't stress over weight, instead, try and sex diet or simply look into some plus size lingerie that really shows off your assets. There's no point in stressing about what you did or didn't do in 2012, live for the day and plan for the 'morrow with a smile.
For more about Resolutions and Goals, check out The Submissive Guide's Article about Goal Setting.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
It has been a while - almost over 2 months, since I last posted.
Many of you follow me on Fetlife and know whats going on - Sir Phrxus, PunkyPup and I are taking a short break from the community to work on some personal stuff.
I'm going back to school and Pup and Daddy are working for a guy up here in AK that is starting a new restaurant and so that will be taking up much of their time.
We will be back soon.
I am taking the time this holiday to revamp, rewrite, renew the blog and I am very excited about the changes we are making to it.
Not only will you still have the articles and reviews by yours truly but I will have a co-blogger and more pictures and what not.
There will be changes to the layout, style, affiliations, and more.
I'm hoping to make the blog easier to navigate and more pleasing to read and look at.
The changes and new posts will be up some time after the new year. No set date yet.
I hope you all are as excited as I am.
Tuesday, October 9, 2012
Saturday, September 22, 2012
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Like any other EdenFantasys' product, the kit came in a discretely marked box but I was surprised at how huge it was. All of the toys are in a very long, plastic display case with a Taiwanese model, Kobe Tai, in a skimpy outfit on the front. I would say the packaging of the product is not discreet at all, nor would it close completely once opened. So, we disposed of it rather promptly, opting for our toy bag to keep the toys in.
The kit includes 2 butt-plugs, one of which I believe is more of a stretcher as it is slender and widens as it nears the base instead of bulges large enough to remain inside. The stretcher is made of rubber and the other, which is what I would normally call a plug as it is bulging and then tapers for the rectal muscles to close on and hold, is soft and made of pthalate-free jelly.
The beads graduate in size, and the last four are quite large. I don’t recommend using the last three, as they make for a better handle than an insertion point. Once inside, I did have a bit of a giggle at the way the beads looked hanging out. At first, we likened it to a stubby tail but the more I looked at it, the more it made me think of an improperly placed antenna and I made the comment that I felt like I was being probed, which made my husband and I both giggle.
I wanted to add that, since the beads are made of pthalate-free jelly like the aforementioned butt plug, they are considered not as chemically safe as silicone. This should be taken into account if you are sensitive to this sort of thing. Silicone would be a better alternative.
Sensual Roller Coaster
For all of the toys involved, I recommend using a condom for easy clean up after anal sex and if you plan on using the toys both anally and vaginally as the materials are porous and not safe to use that way otherwise. The condom also helps with the anal beads and not getting bits of "yuck" along the bead seams. I also recommend obtaining a container for them, even if it's a simple freezer bag that is later tossed in a larger toy bag or chest. Various toy bags and toy boxes can also be found on EdenFantasys.
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Monday, August 13, 2012
I have always believed that the worst thing you can do when you first pick up a book is to judge it by its cover. So, naturally, when I picked up 'Wet', that is exactly what I did - I thought it was gonna be good.
'Wet', by Noir Le Chat, is a collection of erotic stories. On the back cover, it reads "Author Noir Le Chat has put together one nightcap for each night of the week with a use of metaphors that are intellectually erotic and undeniably unique."
I was rather intrigued by the wording of "intellectually erotic" and "undeniably unique", so I started to read. The first thing that I realized was that Noir Le Chat was not kidding about the use of metaphors. When I read that, I was thinking there would be maybe one or two
metaphors, perhaps between a teacher and a naughty student (Hee hee), but alas, I was incorrect. What she meant is that every story was going to be written like a metaphor.
For example, the first story. "The Conversation" is about how this woman is incredibly turned on by this man's conversation and voice. 'Alright,' I thought to myself, 'this could get good.'
Ms. Le Chat proceeds to use the conversation bit throughout the story - when the woman begins oral sex on the man, she is described as using her "persuasive words" and that as his flavor "spoke back" to her, it let her know that "he understood and enjoyed her conversation".
His penis is then described as a "hardened story". As she deep throats him, Ms. Le Chat describes it as "wanting to get her full point across." And when he finally cums - that is written as her tongue being overflowed with wet words. As the characters further their
conversation, his penis is yet again described as a "hardened story", and the female character is placed against the wall as they prepare for "his next topic of discussion." And when they finally do start to have sex, his strokes are not actual strokes, but rather "new
sentences." Her climax is not an actual climax either, but rather an applause to show him how much she enjoyed his narrative.
And then there is the fourth story to consider, "The best advice I ever received."
OH DEAR SWEET GOD DID THIS STORY MAKE ME WANT TO VOMIT.
It starts out surprisingly normal. We are introduced to our female character, who is anxiously attempting to register for some form of placement test, and has contacted several school counselors concerning it. She finally gets in contact with one, meets with him, and goes to
an orientation meeting about the test where he will be speaking. Surprise, surprise, this gentleman is not only described as being an "Adonis", but as having a "distinguished, sexy voice."
And then we get to the "erotic" part, aka the part that not only gave poor Aconita a headache but also made her want to puke. ):
As you have probably guessed by now, the particular metaphors used in this story are advice, counsel and orator. She enters his office wanting some further advice and counsel on speaking, which naturally leads them to getting it on.
He proceeds to go down on her, and that is where everything goes to hell.
His going down on her is described as a 'lecture' that truly deserved a 'standing ovation when all was said and done.'
And when she pulls down his pants and starts to perform oral on him, not only is his dick described as being 'advice and wisdom', Ms. Le Chat writes the oral as 'I bent over swallowing every bit of his advice, hoping that he would be as pleased with my oral performance as I
was with his. He placed his hands on my head guiding me back and forth with the precise skillfulness and helped me choose just the right text. I wanted this to be a speech that he would never forget as I spoke into his microphone. The wet spoken flow I tasted coming from
his mic onto my tongue let me know he was proud of his student and that I was now schooling him.'
The advice continues, and they get ready to have intercourse. His penis is again described as advice, and every stroke as a lesson. Their climax is described as 'the ringing of the bell', 'passing the test' and 'class being let out', along with being 'his final point' and her being
an 'exceptional student.'
To make a long story short, this collection sucked. It is definitely unique, and the premise is interesting, but in my opinion, Ms. Le Chat takes the use of metaphors way too far. It is one thing to have a character use a metaphor a couple of times in the story, but to make
everything a metaphor is just too much. This collection might appeal to some people, but not me. I give 'Wet' a 1/5.
Until next time,
Thursday, August 2, 2012
How do you do it?
Simply leave a comment on the Nomination Post or e-mail Rori at
rori at betweenmysheets dot com
Nominations close August 31st.
Once the 2012 list is given I will happily re-blog it here and more than happily celebrate with you, darling readers, if I'm on it.
So lets give it a try and show me some love, ok?
Wednesday, August 1, 2012
Sunday, July 29, 2012
gives readers a scene of Tasia being fucked by three men in a place called an “aviary” filled with artificial fog and blue lights.
is a short telling of a scene between characters Master Victor, Tasia and Kira. Tasia has just been made Mistress of Kira and performs one of Kira’s fantasies at Master Victor’s request during their very hot threesome – Kira wants to be fisted.
is a great short look into the mind of Tasia as she revels in subspace and to be used by Master Victor. It is also the book where the climax begins to get intriguing. Tasia and her submissive, Kira are being sent to pleasure one of Master Victor’s business partners, Simon, who will trade time with them for a club in Tijuana. Problem is, Simon is not to be trusted. Autumn, a Mistress who has it out for Tasia, will also be there to look after Victor’s interest…but will she have her own interest in mind?
, is probably one of the most romantic stories in the book. It speaks to a Damsel in Distress fetish I have. Tasia is willing to suffer any pain or pleasure Autumn and Simon have for her as long as they don’t hurt Kira, Tasia’s submissive who is gentle and sweet and only wants to please.
Friday, July 27, 2012
Thursday, July 26, 2012
For those of you who liked me reviews of the BDSM training classes for BDSM Training Academy I just received an e-mail from Mistress Sophia and Master Bishop that Bishop is now offering a new class - a Step-by-step BDSM lesson ^_^
The lesson is on When deciding on accepting a New Slave - as I am sure you can guess, this is for those training to be Dominant but is also a good read for slaves looking for new ways to add some protocol and experience to their relationship.
The lesson includes a list that Dominants should consider giving their subs/slaves to help set and keep boundaries:
- Location and time they should arrive
- What they should wear or not wear
- A list of 7 to 10 items that they need to memorize
- A list of positions that they need to know
- A list of things that they need to keep in mind (to not look you in the eyes, for example)
- A list of the ways they can address you during the session
- A list of things that you may do to them during the session (keeping it mild for the first time)
If you're interested in something like this or in any other classes from Master Bishop or in How to train Submissives or Slaves, please check out their site and sign up to be a member of Discover BDSM Slave Training.
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
I'm going to buy a Girl Scout sash
Kinky Merit Badges offers a great selection of patches and so far I think I've earned at least the Flogging, Shibari and Spanking badges.
I'll also be getting Leather, BDSM, Poly and Age Play Pride patches and patches for events and anything else Sir Phryxus decides I've earned a patch for.
I think this idea would be great for any sub, slave or age player. Feel free to steal ^_^
Well, Sir Phryxus and I finally got a chance to use it July 14th at the local play party.
My pink and purple leather flogger, which I have dubbed the LoliFlog, received a lot of attention and admiration from the community Saturday night. The few who asked to check it out all said it looked pretty and painful. This, I can now testify, is the truth.
The flogger is made of leather (I'm assuming cow hide, because I wasn't informed otherwise) dyed pink and purple and knotted with silver plastic beads at the end of each of the 42 tails. It is not a cat-o-nine as many people called it at the party...a Cat-o-nine has NINE tails >.<
At the suspension rig and, later at the St. Andrew's Cross, Daddy warmed me up with our other 2 customer floggers from Toolworks Chicago, which I am used to, then brought out my LoliFlog. Even going easy, the silvery beads and knots at the end make sure to grab my attention. As the throws grew harder and heavier, I could feel each bead against my skin and, even though Daddy made sure not to mark me right away, I could feel heated welts from each sting form as the beating went on along my shoulders, back, hips, ass, thighs and even between my legs.
Warning: This toy is not for a beginner masochist.
Daddy's comment on using the flogger was "it seems to hold up well its pretty lite which I'm not use to so controlling how hard it hits is hard. All in all it was good, though it seemed like it would be nice and stingy." I agreed.
The only issue I had with the flogger was that it did have some glue flakes on the strands here and there that had to be pinched off and caused minor discoloration and there is a piece of leather on the handle that feels a little loosely glued but didn't seem to get any looser after use, so it should be fine.
All in all, the LoliFlog gets a 5 star rating from me. I can't wait to have it used on me again ^_^
Monday, July 16, 2012
The event was hosted by the members of WhatWhereWhoAK on FetLife and they did a fantastic job not only in providing dungeon equipment and event space but also food and drinks and just plain being so damn nice!
Dungeon equipment spanned from leather padded kneeling stool and horse to a suspension rack and medical and massage tables and a St. Andrew's Cross. All kinds of toys were available for use from floggers to paddles to violet wands and wax.
Daddy and I stuck with our own toys for the most part but enjoyed trying out the suspension rack on stage, the St. Andrews Cross (which was sadly too big for me to stand against properly) and the horse.
|Photo by KinkyPhotos4U|
Not only were we having fun on the toys but a lot of other people were too. We got to perv out watching a full suspension, some fisting, wax play, caning, and CUPPING! - which was my favorite to watch and can't wait to give it a shot myself.
Met a bunch of people with like interests not only in rope work and shibari but also other age players and lots of other kitties like me ^_^
We had so much fun and I even had some rope marks after ^_^
I'm still giddy over how nice everyone was and how many people we met...and how many of them I can't remember their names for the life of me.
Can't wait till the next coffee meet up!
Friday, July 13, 2012
Thursday, July 12, 2012
Saturday, July 7, 2012
well just a couple of updates tonight as there's something sticky in my keyboard and the type-o fairy is making me frustrated writing this.
1 Sir Phryxus bought me a new slave's journal ^_^
I'll have pics up soon as I can get a new camera but its leather and has celtic knotwork embossed on the cover. Its beautiful.
We're also working on some new rules so I can still feel in sub-mode without all the outward show that I'm used to. Some of it will involve writing in my journal daily or something as simple as drinking 2 bottles of water a day for my health.
2 Thank you everyone who has messaged, commented, or e-mailed me about the FanFic issue.
As to the suggestions to move my story to adultfanfiction.net I probably will when I have more time online.
Thanks to those of you who have asked that I continue writing. I really appreciate your readership immensely.