Monday, September 1, 2014

Kink of the Week: Buttplugs

The voted and much appealing Kink of the Week is Butt Plugs, which, as Kink and Poly writer Jade says, is very apt as August is Anal August (I did not know this!).

This KOTW marks the end of a hiatus for Jade as well as for us here at HP! Hurrah!

Lets plug along, shall we? (pun pun pun)

I have used butt plugs rarely. Anal just isn't my thing. I have tried it, I have enjoyed it a little, Sir enjoys it (more than me). However, due to some past medical mania I have been through...we tend to tip-toe around anal at times.
The only anal plugs I have ever tried were the Kobe Tai Anal Adventure (review linked). This is no the best for discussing anal among others as neither plug is made from what most would consider body-safe material and...well...I've since given those plugs away.

This lack of practice and...material...does make for a somewhat boring post for a come-back. So, I figured I'd share a story that was once shared with me. I wasn't really given permission to share this so I will refrain from naming names unless they decide to announce themselves ^_^

I was told this story at a MaST (Masters and Slaves Together) meeting in Alaska. It was during a discussion of whether or not Master is ALWAYS right...fun eh?
Slave S decided to regale us with the tail of their butt plug experience that cause Master J to consider listening to his slave when she recommends something be done a little differently than he commanded.
The story goes...
Slave S had been wearing a butt plug all day. Master J cornered her in the bathroom, told her to bend over and pull out her plug. She requested that she pull the plug out over the toilet as she feared that there might be some...leakage...
Unwilling to be argued with, Master J made the command that his woman bend over and pull out the plug.
Unable to argue with him more, Slave S bent over and pulled out her plug.
Slave S described what happened after as "you know when you open a champagne bottle..."
Yea...the visual was pretty much set.
Master J and Slave S spent some time after the butt plug removal cleaning up the projectile mess.

While I got a good giggle out of that story, there is a moral there...

I hope you enjoyed this little post about butt plugs from my very meager perspective.

Much love

Lady Phryxus

Thursday, August 28, 2014

Ex-Relationships and The Markings Left Behind

I have returned to my blog, re-read some of the posts, looked at my life now, and seen a number of changes in House Phryxus and with me.
I was tempted, as I re-read some past posts, to go back and edit out names of relationships that are no longer a part of my life. Make a clean slate of things as it were. The temptation was strong just like so many others who have loved and lost and wish they could erase the markings even after the ache in our hearts is gone. Much like a tattoo...this would require work.

I weighed things out and in the end I decided not to erase those names or delete those images here. Doing so would not eliminate the open space their absence has created. By switching names like PunkyPup (Pup) and Wolfy, who I am not longer with, to "my ex" or "my old girlfriend"...this only makes for more work and awkwardness in my life.

Erasing their names would also negate the lessons learned and impact they have had on me. By being in a relationship with all of my exes, not just those mentioned here, I have learned about myself, about my desires and boundaries, about where I want to be and who I want to be with. Considering that, I wouldn't change a thing about what has happened. By implementing this decision here, I hope that this blog will also grow, progress and evolve much like its writer.

Thank you, those of you who have touched my life and effected the House and this blog. May your name always be here.

Lady Phryxus

Friday, January 31, 2014

Sub Prompts: How did we meet?

Submissive Prompt is How did I meet the person I serve?

Sir Phryxus and I met sort of at a club sort of online. I'll explain.

Me at Dancing in the Dark Masquerade Nov. 2007
I was new in town, going to college, all virginal and shiny and newby. I talked some friends into going to a local goth night at a club called Rafters. They were having a Masquerade and I really wanted to check it out. So a group of guy friends and I went. As we were having our I.D.s checked and our hands stamped as too-young-to-imbibe a guy came out to check on the number of people they had and laughed about how here he was hosting this shindig and the only one without a mask...
Yep, that was Daddy. Sir Phryxus.

I saw him a few other times that night. I thought he was cute but always around girls so I assumed he had a girlfriend and didn't approach him. Besides, the guys I was with were like brothers and wouldn't leave me alone for one second.

Later, I was looking at the forum that the goth night had - Dancing in the Dark (which sadly no longer exists) and joined the message boards. It was new to me so when it asked for your name I used my real name and didn't think anything of it. I got a message not long after from a guy saying I had a really pretty name.
We got to chatting and decided to meet at the next goth night. I talked some girl friends into going this time, not feeling the need to have big brother watch over me.

As you might have guessed, the online guy was Sir Phryxus. I was happily surprised. We danced, kissed. He asked if I had a boyfriend. I said no. He said, "You want one?" Yea...he was smooth lol. So we've been together ever since.

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